How to observe your vulva for the first time

As if it were a recipe, we can spend some time observing our vulva and connecting with it. I am still struck by the number of women who today have not observed what is between their legs. What do we need?   -Vegetable organic oil. I like almond oil, but you can choose the one […]

Zhana Vrangalova #NYC

Zhana is a researcher who works in two fields – one’s heterosexuality, the other is casual sex and promiscuity.   What does “casual sex mean?   “There are a lot of definitions of it. A broader one that I use in my research is, the sex you have when you’re not emotionally attached and/or there’s no […]

Bodysex workshop with Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross

The very idea of attending a workshop on female masturbation is quite interesting enough, although meeting Betty Dodson, the author of the bestseller “Sex for One”, is even more exciting.   NYC, Upper East Side – we arrive at 13:00h, and we get to know each other. We’re a group of 10 women that are going to […]

The order of the factors

Last week, I facilitated a private Bodysex session and when we finished, as usual as always, I had this feeling that these sessions give me a unique chance to closely observing the orgasm. And particularly, observing the lack of orgasm. I recalled what old mathematical law we studied at school, the order of the factors […]

Awards Transgender-Filmfest in Kiel 2018

The event took place for the 6th year and despite wonderful sunny weather people came to the screenings. Here are the Audience-Awards:   Best feature film: UNA MUJER FANTASTICA   Best trans-performance: Debargo Sanyal in VENUS   Best actor (non tg role) Jamie Mayers in VENUS   Best documentary: SIDNEY & FRIENDS Best […]

Should Madonna keep on showing her tits?

A few days ago, Madonna uploaded this photo to her Instagram, where she exposes a portion of the nipple.   Still drooling over a handbag…………….. 👜😂🌈💕 @louisvuitton #nofriends #lisbonisfar #werktodo #fashion 💕💕💕💕🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸💕💕💕💕💕🌸🌸#monalisa Una publicación compartida de Madonna (@madonna) el Ene 25, 2018 at 6:17 PST It is curious that this woman has been accused of […]

Nowhere 2017

There’s an event that’s been happening in the United States since the mid- 80’s and, already in the 90’s, reached international proportions. Today, it congregates 70k people for a summer week in the middle of the Nevada desert: the Burning Man. In this event, there are performances, rituals and artistic expressions born from the self-organized […]

Awards Fetisch Film Festival 2016

The conference took place October 27-29, 2016 in Kiel/Germany. It was good to see so many kinky fil ms. One film was just outstanding: the documentary about photographer Robert Mapplethorpe! Best Film of the year: MAPPLETHORPE – LOOK AT THE PICTURES von Fenton Bailey, Randy Barbato Best Song: “Precious Body” by Ines Theileis […]

What did it happen in the Bodysex?

From the moment I start thinking about the date for the Bodysex, it starts the ritual. The sensation is to keep alive the ceremony more than replicating a workshop. It’s something that connects me to the journey of wisdom that Betty Dodson launched in the 60s, and I want to perpetuate.   By setting the […]

How was my first Bodysex

Back in the 70’s, through the very sexual revolution and the rise of Feminism, some Betty Dodson had the idea of making a workshop for women, focused on creating sexual consciousness. A couple weeks ago, I had the idea of looking for the meaning of “consciousness” (in Spanish, “consciencia”) in the Royal Spanish Academy Dictionary. […]